Written by Val Rasmussen | Photos by D’Arcy Benincosa
Getting hitched alone or accompanied by only a few friends offers intimacy, beauty and, ultimately, a focus on what matters most: marrying the love of your life. Photographer D’Arcy Benincosa joins floral designer Sarah Winward to enlighten Utah couples on the art of eloping with unforgettable style.
Use What Mama Nature Gives You
“An intimate ceremony in the mountains allows you to keep the numbers small, the location private and the ceremony space focused on the wonders of nature,” says Benincosa of the Little Cottonwood Canyon meadow she discovered off the side of the road.
“Forget large arch installations and 200 folding chairs. Find a field of wild flowers, bring a few chairs—or even stand—and bask in the silent stillness of the grand mountains.”
Adhere To a BFF-Only Guest List
Don’t let social media “friendships” dictate your invite list.
“With a small party, you can get married just before sunset and still have time to capture photos of the entire wedding party during the golden hour,” Benincosa says. “All of these images were taken in a 90-minute time frame, from start of ceremony, to bride and groom portraits, to group portraits. With a small gathering, the most beautiful light can be captured during the entire ceremony.”
Avoid Newlywed Debt
Breathtaking and low budget? Have your cake (pun intended) and eat it, too.
“You could save thousands of dollars on your wedding venue and put it towards a house, a honeymoon or into savings,” Benincosa recommends. “You can’t get any better than the views and vistas of the Utah mountains. Finding the perfect location is easy with enough scouting and attention to where and when it’s appropriate to set up a small ceremony site.”
Extroverts Need Not Apply
If hosting a big audience is outside your wheelhouse, running away together to a sensational locale is an option.
“If you’re a couple who values simple, beautiful, minimal and you don’t want the hassle of planning a big wedding, a small gathering in the mountains is just the thing for you,” Benincosa says.
Ignore Trends
Put away the checklists, to-dos and must-haves, and remember what this journey is all about.
“Love is the reason,” Benincosa says. “Get married to the love of your life in the location you love the most. In Utah, we choose mountains over sea any day of the week.”
written by Ashley Baker | photos by Bri Bergman Photography
It goes without saying that the winter months in Utah are freezing. If you’re like most of our brides and love everything outdoors, but don’t necessarily want to subject yourself, or your wedding guests, to the frigid outside temperatures, here are some inspiring ideas to bring the outdoors inside.
Written by Val Rasmussen | Photos by Kenzie Victory
Want party design with maximum impact?
Try a minimalist approach. Rachael Affleck of Rachael Ellen Events and photographer Kenzie Victory reject the conventional overdone décor, princess gown and endless guest list. Instead, they focus on what matters most—a couple beginning its life together. Follow these five tips to harness sophisticated style for a Scandi-chic winter celebration.
Like marriage, wedding design is a delicate balancing act. “It’s all about opposites and the way they work together to evoke a feeling of chic modernism without skipping out on feminine bridal details,” says Rachael Affleck of Rachael Ellen Events. Modern cymbidium blooms next to old-fashioned carnations? Marbled cake frosting in pink hues? Black tuxedo paired with the stark white gown? Yes, yes and yes.
Make a Statement
The simplicity of this stark gown makes it jaw-dropping, and it is accentuated by the fine jewels complementing it. Pairing simple fashion with statement jewels like bold, geometric earrings and unique diamond rings creates a one-of-a-kind look. “J. Brooks Jewelers pieces provided the perfect amount of classic timelessness to balance the modernity in the rest of the design,” Affleck explains.
Keep It Tailored
Never has a ponytail looked so cool. “We dressed the bride in a sleek, modern Halston Heritage gown. We kept her hair in a messy-but-chic ponytail for a twist on the traditional up-do,” Affleck says. “Our groom wore a classic tux that provided the perfect amount of tradition to balance and contrast our fashion-forward bride.”
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A single table candleholder mirrors a mountain silhouette, a sentimental backdrop for many Utahns. “Use a geometric taper candle holder as the focal piece to give the design a wonderful linear yet romantic feel,” Affleck suggests. Flatware, wine cups and floral containers provide a metallic shine next to taupe carnations, tea roses, garden roses and lisianthus. Yellow cymbidium orchids and calla lilies frame the neutral-hued bridal bouquet, while scabiosa and allium add a touch of lavender and gray.
Prep Your Guests
Keep that guest list pared down and announce your minimal-chic soiree with pretty paper. “This invitation suite is a perfect balance between modern and romantic featuring a bold type paired with soft floral details,” Affleck says. Help your photographer style your invitation suite on the wedding day by adding bloom clippings, Frou Frou Chic ribbon and a velvet ring box. “These details feel luxe, mod and feminine all at once.”
Chris and Erinn Austin of White Haute Photography moved to Salt Lake City from California just one year ago. They’re an experienced husband and wife team of photographers who began their business in 2004. Their work is well-known and has been featured in several local wedding magazines as well as Style Me Pretty, The Knot, and more.
Q. Let’s jump right in, what makes White Haute unique?
Our goal is to bring out the inner beauty of the couples we work with. We want them to feel comfortable and natural. Our style is more natural, and depends a lot on what our clients are going for. Sometimes they want a high-fashion look, while others are unsure of what look they want. We work with our couples to figure that out and we definitely try to bring out their individual style. No matter how much or how little time you’ve spent in front of a camera, we’ll make you have a good time and capture beautiful images.
Q. What’s your photographic style?
We love to capture the raw emotion between our couples. Sessions with us are usually laid-back and relaxed because we like to make our sessions fun for our clients. We know clients are often nervous and unsure what to do, so we give plenty of direction where needed. And, also be prepared to laugh!
Q. Do you and Erinn both show up to the event on the wedding day and what’s the benefit of having two photographers instead of one?
Erinn and I shoot together. My wife, having been a bride herself, can connect very quickly and easily with brides on their wedding day. Together, we’re able to seek out the most complimentary poses and images because we both bring our own individual styles.
Our couples get two different looks, which our clients love because they can choose from a variety of angles and photographic styles. Another huge benefit to hiring a husband and wife team is that you get two different perspectives, clients get both the male and female points of view.
During the getting ready process, brides tend to feel more comfortable with Erinn in the room. She’s a true professional, so she’s knowledgeable and can make adjustments to a bride’s hair or dress if it’s needed. Our couple’s also get two people who are very competitive when we are shooting; we’re always trying to one-up each other.
Q. What advice can you offer couples when they’re seeking out a photographer for their big day?
Hire someone with experience.
The more experience a photographer has, the faster they’re able to adapt to a problem that may arise. Our 14 years as photographers has taught us that so many little unexpected things come up on a wedding day, and someone with experience understands that and has the ability to quickly do what needs to be done to continue getting the best images. You don’t want to look over and see your photographer not taking photos because his or her battery died or the flash suddenly stopped working, and they don’t know what to do.
Also, look to hire someone that you feel very comfortable with on a personal level. You want someone that you connect with, that you can laugh with, that you can trust. And you want to feel this way before signing a contract. It’ll make all the difference on the big day.
Q. Why is it important to invest in wedding day photography?
Spend the money to get the photographer you really want. I’ve heard of so many couples who go with people who charge a cheap rate, or a family member/friend to take their photos and later, they always wish they would’ve gone with a professional.
Once the wedding is over, the cake is gone, and the flowers are dead, the photos are what you’re left with the rest of your life. Don’t trust that big responsibility to an amateur or inexperienced photographer just to save a few dollars.
Q. What if a couple doesn’t have large budget to spend on wedding photos?
Budget is a concern, but put a little more into photography even if you have to take it from somewhere else.
I’ve had customers who were unhappy with their images from their photographer, and we’ve had to reshoot their portraits long after the wedding day, but you can’t redo the ceremony or reception. Guests won’t care if you switch from steak to chicken or if you spend less on the centerpieces. We want people to be happy with their pictures, whether they’re our clients or not, and the only way to be sure of that is to hire someone with experience, that you connect with.
Q. What are some ways you can tell if the person you’re hiring is a professional photographer?
Usually, you can tell if someone is a professional just from their contact email. A professional should have an email address that ends in their company’s name, not a free email service. Also, they should have a website and portfolio, not simply a social media account with a few select images.
Before you book, ask if they have liability insurance because anything can happen, and it can protect you as the client if something does go wrong. Many venues require proof that all vendors carry a minimum amount of liability insurance prior to the wedding day. Also, ask what kind of backup equipment they’ll bring to your wedding. A professional should have back up cameras, flashes, lenses etc. Also ask about the Professional Photographers of America membership, many of us in the photography industry are members of that organization and it requires certain criteria are met in order for us to join, and remain in good standing.
Q. Say your client wants to travel, do you have any limits/advice about destination shoots?
We’re up for anything when it comes to our client’s photos. We’ve hopped on planes to Seattle, or driven to Vegas just for engagement sessions, and we have photographed weddings from Hawaii to the East Coast…We’re always up for an adventure, and we highly recommend it for your engagement session, when you aren’t constrained by location or time. Once we book, we take a survey about the couple so that we can tailor sessions around their personalities. We usually suggest locations based on personal interest or shared hobbies.
For more information or to contact White Haute photography, check them out on our vendor guide or visit their website here.
Sure, it’s known for summer concerts and winter ice skating, but did you know the Gallivan Center hosts weddings, too? In fact, some of our favorite weddings landed at the Gallivan, due to its location being snack dab in the heart of downtown Salt Lake City.
Most Noteable Part About Hosting a Wedding at Gallivan Center?
According to Kristen Young, Marketing & Advertising Event Manager for the Gallivan Center, the best part about having a wedding at the Gallivan is that the venue is open to interpretation. It can act as an indoor and/or outdoor setting, so it’s customizable to varying wedding needs.
“We don’t have preferred photographers or caterers so it’s a blank slate for couples to create whatever mood or theme they want,” Young says. “If couples are looking for a more casual setting, we can accommodate food trucks, and for more formal events couples can bring in their desired catering service.”
We love that it’s located close to TRAX, so you can quickly access downtown’s after-party scene.
Best Times to Host a Wedding at the Gallivan Center
“Summers fill up quickly and should be booked about a year in advance for weekends. Spring is a great time to book, and three months is plenty of notice,” says Gallivan Center Event Assitant, Amy Nilsson.
The downtown venue is surprisingly affordable, even with it’s central location and so many options. Gallivan Hall, costs about $900 to book out, but don’t just take our word for it, visit their website for more information.
Ema McCarthy and Trajan Pili, were married exactly one year to the day after their first date.
Ema is originally from Hawaii, and while growing up, two of her closest friends happened to be Trajan’s first cousins.
“I’m best friends with two of his cousins, so I’d heard Trajan’s name from his aunts before. They would say to me, “I have this nephew you need to meet.”
As it turns out, they were right.
Trajan grew up in Las Vegas, NV and moved to Utah to play football for BYU.
Ema moved from her island paradise to snowy Utah in the summer of 2016. “It made zero sense at the time, but now I see why that had to happen,” Ema says.
“My friend and I were at church one day and I saw Trajan. I told her that I thought he [Trajan] looked good. That’s when she asked if she could finally line us up.”
But Ema wasn’t the only one who was interested. Trajan had caught a glimpse of Ema on his cousin’s snapchat account and immediately had to know who she was.
“We went on a double date with his cousin, then two days later we were still texting back and forth,” she recalls. “We just never stopped dating after that.”
“We’d been dating for 9 months when he proposed,” Ema says. On the night he was planning to ask, Trajan convinced Ema that he was taking her to dinner to meet his football scholarship donor. “He told me that it was going to be a really nice dinner and to dress up for it.”
Trajan told Ema to be ready by 7 p.m. and that he would pick her up.
“I was mad at him for not coming to see me because he’d been gone on a two-week football retreat with his team and he’d just returned home that day,”she says. “He picks me up for dinner that night, and we begin driving to the restaurant, or so I thought. While we’re in the car, Trajan tells me that Corbin, his friend from football, is going to let us know when our table is ready.”
Photo credit Abby Anderson | Provo Library
“It was raining, I was hangry, and already upset at him and then we pull into this park,” Ema says. “I saw his sister there and then she began snapping photos. That’s when I knew something was up. Trajan leads me to this trail that was lined with lit candles, scattered rose petals and photos of us that we’d taken throughout the duration of our relationship. I wasn’t grouchy anymore and I just felt happy. As he dropped to his knee, the rain stopped,” she says.
Local fashion designer, Afa Ah Loo designed Ema’s dress. Ema knew of his work because they attend the same church and he designed her sister-in-law’s wedding dress.
“While I was shopping for, and trying on dresses my shoulders wouldn’t fit comfortably in any of the dresses I. They were too tight in that area, and if I went up a larger dress size, they would fit my shoulders, but they were too loose everywhere else. I wanted a boho-chic look, so I found inspiration on Pinterest and gave the pictures to Afa. He made the dress out of imported silk and it turned out even better than I expected,” she says.
“I never thought I’d have a winter wedding. I remember that I was really worried, I wanted everything to be right, but I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day. It was the happiest day,” she says.
written by Val Rasmussen | photos by Jacque Lynn Erickson
The Couple
photos by Jacque Lynn Erickson
Chelsea Hildt and David A.J. Robinson
“We were in nearby halls during our freshman year, and our roommates were friends,”David explains. “I remember laughing with Chelsea when I first saw her dorm room door plastered with hilarious memes.”
A week or so later, the couple took a spontaneous weekend road trip to California, driving all Friday night, playing in Laguna Beach on Saturday, then driving home on Sunday.
“We have been on a non-stop adventure since,” David says.
After getting engaged on a Provo hillside on a chilly April night, the duo set their sights on an outdoor wedding during the heat of the summer.
“David grew up in the neighborhood right above the Capitol and, after looking at one of the sunsets from the granite patios of the beautiful Capitol, we decided that it would be the perfect spot,” says Chelsea.
The summer evening oozed classic style. Floral arches greeted guests, dark wooden chairs linedtables, formal programs announced events and fresh garlands ran down table centers. Mauve, muted pink, gray and powder blue provided small pops of color against the Capitol’s marble terrace.
“One of my very favorite elements of the design was the marble name cards,” says wedding planner Rachael Affleck of Rachael Ellen Events, referring to the Capitol building’s stone. “It was classic and timeless yet had a fresh, modern garden-party feel. The gold calligraphy tied in all of the other gold details. Not only did the marble place cards serve as name cards, but they were also small favors for the guests to take home at the end of the night.”
“We had a hard time deciding on our wedding meal,” Chelsea admits.
They debated street gyros, a corn-dog truck or Greek food, but ultimately decided that finger foods served at a seated dinner didn’t provide the ambiance they envisioned. They decided instead on starters comprised of caprese poppers, sliced steak bruschetta and crab and shrimp cakes. The formal dinner offered classic chopped salad, campanelle carbonara (penne tossed with garlic, wood-grilled chicken, bacon, Parmesan and Romano cheeses, spinach and Alfredo sauce) and gorgonzola-crusted beef. Guests enjoyed a choice of Italian wedding cake or carrot cake for dessert.
“Even though it was a monumental and beautiful day for both of us and was preceded by a lot of planning and attention-to-detail,” Chelsea says, “I look back and think about how peaceful the day was and how, as soon as the day started, I remember thinking that no detail mattered aside from our actual ceremony.”
If you’re enchanted by mermaids or unicorns in your design, here’s a wedding style for you. La Fete’s Baddley dives deep into iridescent clouds of cotton candy. “This mood can go bad fast, but if you want a white, cream or beige wedding that makes your guests jaws drop, adding iridescence can help.”
Fondant frosting blankets a “funfetti” vanilla cake with colorful sprinkles by Flour & Flourish, while delicate gelatin shreds decorate each layer.
“Let the style of the cake shine,” says pastry chef Cassidy Harrison. “If a cake is simply frosted, go with varying layer heights. If you want to decorate with something unique, keep your cake’s shape simple.”
Galaxy cheesecake and champagne cotton-candy cocktails from Cuisine Unlimited round out the space-age sweets, along with Maison Confiserie et Boutique’s pink vanilla cotton candy and cotton candy sugar strings.
Hair and makeup artist Janelle Ingram creates ultimate sophistication with a classic chignon and flawless makeup.
A dramatic shimmer-encrusted tulle ball gown ($5,500) from Bitsy Bridal elegantly pairs with Roberto Coin diamond pavé flower earrings in 18k white gold ($5,300) and a Pomellato amethyst Nudo ring with diamonds in rose gold ($5,800) from O.C. Tanner Jewelers.
“Blush tones will forever be popular wedding colors, so I started there and added more depth and punch,” says Refine Studio’s Nikkol Christiansen. “An iridescent layer softens the pink and adds a fashion-forward statement to the suite. A modern edge takes form with unexpected type placement and minimal wording.”
Jewel-toned cocktail rings—including this amethyst and rose gold beauty ($5,800) from O.C. Tanner Jewelers—add glow and glam to the mood.
If you’re in the market for modest, stylish and affordable wedding gowns, our friends at Gateway Bridal may just have what you’re looking for.
Gateway Bridal & Prom, located in the heart of downtown Salt Lake City, is one of Utah’s premier bridal destinations. Boasting one of the largest selections of dresses in the state, Gateway is also home to the LatterDayBride collection, the world’s largest collection of modest wedding dresses. The beautiful showroom provides a one-of-a-kind experience for brides to find their perfect wedding dress, from strapless to modest and every style in between.
Gateway Bridal also has the largest selection of plus size bridal samples in Utah, so brides of all shapes and sizes can actually try on their gowns before they decide which one is “The One!”
They have been a part of Utah’s wedding scene for over 16 years and has been a part of 12,000 Happily Ever Afters and Counting!
Today, they want to feature four styles from their LatterDayBride modest bridal collection. These gowns are stylish and highlight all of the latest trends in wedding dresses for 2018.
What’s not to love in this modest wedding dress? Slim sleeves, intricate beading, with a gently pleated chiffon skirt!
Style Love: The pleated skirt gives you so much versatility in your look. Add a petticoat to make this down a darling A-line or stay simple with an equally lovely sheath look.
Gown available in cream/pearl (as pictured).
At just $755, this beautiful modest bridal gown is stylish, yet affordable.
This modest wedding dress suits it’s name. The Karisma has all the class, lace, and beading you love, coupled by just a touch of bohemian in the skirt and dramatic flowers.
Style Love: Gateway Bridal says, “We’ve been back to the drawing board time and time again to bring you the perfect flutter sleeve and viola! Indulge in the perfection.”
Gown available in Ivory/Ivory/Silver, White/White/Silver, and Light Nude/Ivory/Silver (as pictured).
Sleeve length or neckline can be customized. Just ask your bridal consultant.
Zelda Fitzgerald would be proud. This modest wedding dress features a flattering lace sleeve and bodice, a flattering waistline and a dramatic skirt. The soft chiffon underneath trails down into cascading floral lace for a peek-a-boo effect.
Style Love: “This is another gown brought to you by yours truly. Our design team sketched away to bring their visions to life.”
Gown available in white and ivory (as pictured) and also prices at under $800.
A new take on a classic style. On this modest wedding dress, the sleeves and skirt flow together seamlessly!
Style Love: Over several seasons, Gateway Bridal has perfected the flutter sleeve. You’ll love that way this masterpiece cascades around you.
Gown available in White or Ivory (as pictured) and costs under $730. These four styles are just a few examples of the hundreds of wedding dresses available for you to try on at Gateway Bridal & Prom, home of the LatterDayBride collection, your Utah bridal shop.
Call today at 801.363.2574 to schedule your complimentary bridal consultation and fitting or schedule an appointment online.
Happy New Year! If your current reality consists of planning a wedding, then, no doubt, you are also setting the intention of getting physically fit for the big day. Here are some useful tips (and apps) to help you get #weddingdayready.
It’s time to take on 2018 with everything you’ve got, but don’t run the marathon before you’ve tied your shoes and walked out the door.
The biggest mistake we tend to make when setting New Year’s Resolutions, is setting goals that are out of our reach or extremely difficult to accomplish.
I’m not suggesting that we shouldn’t push ourselves, by all means push yourself. Go beyond what seems attainable. Arthur C. Clarke once said, “The limits of the possible can only be defined by going beyond them into the impossible.” But also it’s also good to understand how much time, training and mental stamina goes into running a marathon.
Change-up the Vocabulary
Let’s switch out the word “resolution” or “goal” and instead, set an “intention” for the year. In case you’re wondering, ‘how does the word I use affect my actions?’ Allow me to explain.
Words play a huge role in how we feel about a situation. Think about the phrase “Nothing is impossible.” Although, the phrase is positive, both words are negative. But, if we switch it up to “Everything is possible,” the doors open wide, not only in positive word choice, but how you mentally process the phrase.
The word “intention” gives us purpose and motivation, just like a goal, but it comes without the expectation of success or failure. By using the word intention, we give ourselves something to pursue every day without the pressure of failing. We have enough pressure in life from the outside world, why not cut ourselves a bit of a break?
The journey is the most important part, not where you are going. The 26.2 mile marathon is a small spec of sand amongst the 365 days of working out, eating right and taking care of our bodies. Besides, if it were only about crossing that finish line, then we’ll miss the beautiful scenery, energy of competition, and the joy of breathing in the fresh air along the way.
Set a Long-term Intention
What I mean by this is, it’s a good idea for us to set an intention for something we want to strive for throughout the year. For ease, I’ll stick with the marathon metaphor, but it can be anything that you want and desire to pursue.
For example, if my intention is to run a marathon, I’m going to plan to accomplish it in a year’s time from now. We should allow ourselves the time to pursue that intention.
Setting an intention helps you focus on who you are, where you are at and where you want to go all while living in the present moment without the fear of potential failure. So take a moment to close your eyes and imagine the “intention” you want to strive for in the future. Imagine what you need to do to make it happen and actually see yourself doing it. Visualizing yourself in the process positively changes the energy and view you will have on actually accomplishing it.
Break it Down
Find easy objectives to work through. It can be as simple as, “I want to walk for 10 mins each day.” Then add “I want to run a mile a week.” And then, “I want to run a 5K in three months, 10K in six months, and a half in nine months.”
By simplifying our intentions we avoid discouragement. As I mentioned previously, no one is judging us here. This is our personal intention for 2018.
The best part is, if you end up running that 5K in 5 months. Then you run that 5K in five months and that is perfectly fine.
Remember, Life Happens
Life happens and that’s okay. If you meet your intention and you run that marathon, then definitely kudos and congrats. Remember, we are setting an intention, something that gives us an aim to seek. Not a final destination.
There’s an App for That
If you’re unsure where to start, as with anything these days, there is an app for that. There are several to choose from. Some will help you simply set a to-do list with easy check-off abilities and others use social media for community support. Check out these options and see which works best for you.
Looking for more wedding day health and fitness tips? Follow us on Instagram at @utahbridemag and #UBGFitFriday.
“Our intention creates our reality.” – Wayne Dyer
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Andrea Peterson is a local yoga instructor. She earned her yoga certification through the Fly Yoga School on Martha’s Vineyard under the tutelage of Sherri Sidoti. She has been teaching for the past 6 years out of her home studio—both private and group classes. To learn more about her practice, follow her on Facebook.